Thanks for chiming in on my thread. I just read through your sitch.
It must be difficult having been with your wife for 27 years to all of a sudden break apart. At times I feel fortunate reading this forum having "only" been married 7 / together 9, as it's not nearly the time / emotional investment that many others here have. Though, it's also a double-edged sword in that we have two young children and will have to deal with each other on a regular basis for two more decades. I hope with your daughters being in college it'll help you detach and move on.
Good luck with the financial settlement negotiations.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21