Joe17 - Does the book explain why this cold approach works, I'm still trying to wrap my head around it all, don't get me wrong, I'm not doubting nor discarding everyone's support, in fact it's the opposite. I need support right now and this community has been incredibly supportive.
It's not really cold J. It's just the way things are when you are separated. Just like LH said, would you still do unpaid work for your boss after you've been fired and replaced?
Nobody is telling not to be polite or courteous. We are just telling you to treat your ex like an ex. You need to be free of the emotional ties to your ex. They will slow your healing. They will stunt your growth. And they will make it easy for her to manipulate you.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018
