Just wanted to chime in and let you know we would love nothing more than to see you happy, Steve.
I remember in my sitch, the vets would call me on my issues. And I would get angry because this forum is about fixing marriages and bringing couples back together. I wanted to know how to fix my relationship so the pain the would end.
It wasn’t until after a few months on NC with my ex that I finally started to see things clearly. The vets could see what I couldn’t. My ex was never able or willing to change to make our relationship work. No matter how hard I tried, it didn’t matter.
Sometimes the best advice is the advice we do not want to hear. Because it doesn’t align with our end goal.
Steve, if your end goal is being happy, content, and at peace, put this woman in the rear view mirror and punch the gas.
