"posting up pics of her new boobs in low cut tops and “living life” etc etc. all while the family and kids"

Please tell me you aren't still following her exploits on SM??!! Steve_, man you are too far down this path to be stuck where you are. I am sorry to be blunt, but you either have to get busy moving forward or you are going to remain stuck in your infinite loop. YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER YOU....so exercise it.

Like I said before, you've made progress. Moving out of her parents house and getting your own apartment was HUGE. But then you got stuck again because her and OM#6 ended up not lasting.

Read that again: OM#6!!! That is crazy. This woman is going through guys, yourself included, like a marathon runner through water. She never was, certainly is not now, and may NEVER BE marriage material. To be frank, I think she saw in you someone that she could do ANYTHING she wanted and you would still rescue her, help her, take her back. You say you are done. You say you have arrived. BUT, you cannot seem to come up with the answer to may's question about what that means you do differently starting right now?

Things like:

Get a coparenting app in place and ONLY communicate with her on that app.
Block her on your phone, on your SM, everywhere EXCEPT the coparenting app.
Go consult with a lawyer to find out what you need to do in order prepare to file for D. (Documentation, financial information, etc.)
Double-down on IC. Explain to your IC that your goal is to move on with your life and to stop being there for and waiting for a serial cheater.
Double-down on GAL. GAL like a madman. Make GAL your second most important priority only behind your kids.

Steve_ you continue to flounder because YOU say I am done, but then you do nothing towards being done. Be done, fine. But act done. Behave done. Do what you have to do in order to be done!!!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018