So I will just say nothing until the inevitable time she asks why im saying nothing and I have already decided my answer will be simple "sorry you feel that way, just dont have much to say anymore" and thats that.
Just for reference if you are trying to validate you never tell someone you are sorry they feel that way. That is invalidation.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I am going to start preparing myself for the D.
What does that look like?
Originally Posted by Steve_
Im not going to run down there and finish the paperwork but I wont be trying to talk her out of it. The next time she brings it up im just going to say "ok, no problem" and get it done. That simple.
Sounds like more words.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I am not going to be the one to end the marraige but I absolutely will not try to save it anymore.
What does trying to save it look like to you?
Originally Posted by Steve_
Her mother convinced me not to sign the papers a week ago.
So you are also taking orders from her mother? Or is this just another excuse?
Originally Posted by Steve_
The next time my WW throws it in my face im going down and signing.
Sounds like more words
Originally Posted by Steve_
Believe it or not I really have reached a point where I feel 100% defeated and dont feel like trying to do anything to save this M.
What does trying to save it look like to you?
Originally Posted by Steve_
I wont lie and say I have given up hope it can change, I still have a little, im still attached to the idea.
uuuuummmmmm yeah we know Steve
Originally Posted by Steve_
But I do see the reality more and more each day and I really am in my soul absolutely certain I have done enough and I am not putting any more effort into this. Thats where Im starting at today.
Steve you can't save a marriage when the other person doesn't want it saved
I am sorry Steve but this is another one of your nonsensical posts.
