OMG. Steve. Just because you didn’t “drop the rope” isn’t the reason why she didn’t come back to the marriage after OW failed. It’s because she’s a sick messed up individual .
What has to do with you is the fact that you even wanted her to just come back to the marriage after OM failed.
In every situation you should imagine you are giving your son advice if he was a grown man in this situation. What would you say to hmm.
And like everyone keeps asking. What is your action plan to make sure you don’t get sucked back in? I still fear she says all the right things, you will right there with bells on. What are YOU doing to make sure you protect yourself from getting back in this absolute messy disaster?