That’s where I am bro, and we agreed to mediate, even though we are in agreement she is not as sophisticated. So, one week after little D turns 18, stbxw, on the advice of her nitwit friend, hires an attorney.
And I ask, it’s only money, why did you hire an attorney?
W: Oh, I thought he was a mediator, he told me he could mediate.
Now my fear is the guy is going to just run up the tab when all we need is a settlement agreement and W is now the higher earning spouse and We agreed on all the numbers 50 50.
I’m tell stbxw here are my financials have him draw up an agreement but I’m not going in there to “ mediate “ with your advocate.