Steve_Letting go pt2

[Adam04]

CW,

I’ve seen people deflect like this when they don’t even acknowledge people directly. They address each individual response with a blanket one.

There’s so much to work, I find it strange people can jump the gun to D to try and wake their spouse out of it and there are cases like these where D is best but the LBS is so lost. I don’t know how many times Steve is going to say people say he’s a good man he knows he’s a good man , just reeks of NGS.

Steve shouldn’t really give a flying f what others think of him and should focus on what is right. It sounds like to me his responses are to appease the forum. I hear you guys , yes I’ll drop the rope , I will do this or that ... like still trying to get approval. Overlapping layers of issues. Where is the work bing done? There’s all sorts of ways to slowly detach but he’s gotta want to do it even if he doesn’t like it or he’s gotta force himself hen he doesn’t want to. I know that’s hard...

There’s so many opportunities to Improve in so many ways. I like that Steve is n IC but there has to be implementation. What is the plan...???


She calls and blows up his phone, What’s the plan? She talks to him during dropping off and picking up the kids, how’s he going he to prepare himself to fight urges to want to speak to her. IMO that mental preparedness needs to be practiced ahead of time.