KK,

I think the problem is you think you can nice him back.

Based on your postings it sounds like you were very dismissive and annoyed by him so now you are trying the opposite.

"Oh sweetie you need your sleep".

The problem is that he is in another relationship.

This will keep you spinning for awhile.

Then the trip will come and reality will set in more.

Then the divorce will be done and reality will set in more.

Then the engagement will be announced and reality will set in more.

Then eventually you will have enough and cut him off and he will say "same old KK".

You are playing a game you can't win KK.