WAW w/Exit Affair or WW? - Don't Want Divorce (2)

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Forgot to mention in the above update my birthday was during the quarantine and W asked several different times if she could order cake and ice cream for me and the kids; I declined several times. She also asked about groceries and medicines and picking me up something for dinner when she did for the kids; I declined all of the offers. I'm not saying it was any sort of reconciliation overture - probably her feeling guilty I was sick and stuck with sic kids, or wanting the kids to enjoy the birthday party - but it did feel good internally to stand up and implicitly say "I don't need you or your help".