Scott, my concern here is that she still consumes so much of your headspace. And what rule did you break? That seems like something that would naturally come up?
I don't believe I'm supposed to be talking about my situation with friends or family.
This is only IF the sitch has not gone public yet. Take my sitch, my W was still in the house, D14 (at the time) didn't know, and no one other than her and I were aware of what was going on.
Your W is gone. Out of the house. At this point I think it is okay to discuss, though again I hope they are the ones that bring it up since you are moving on.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018