Girl, I know exactly what you mean about son triggering the H Monster buttons. My son's voice even sounds like his father's. Really hard to deal with. For me, when I can step back and see that trigger for what it is, I regain my power and ability to respond, not react. More later xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver