Steve is another one whose S never moved out and he reconciled, so I think he's a good person to have on your thread and a great example of how to DB while in the same house, just like Wayfarer. There aren't many of us in that boat. (Though as Steve will be quick to remind you, his wife only had an EA, not a PA, or he'd have walked... haha said with love, Steve!!)
may, love you too! LOL And please understand I know it is easier said than done. But I have religious reasons as well as personal reasons for having the line for that boundary/deal-breaker drawn where it is. (IE, I could move on and be free to remarry if a PA was involved.)
May you made me spit my coffee.
So I am not religious so I do not know the answer does the bible distinguish between and EA and PA?
haha said with love, Steve!!) 
