As Cadet says: Doing NOTHING is doing SOMETHING. When a LBS feels the need to act (illusion of action) sometimes the best thing to do is to step back and do nothing at all.
Admit it AK, and you struggling with expectations post the incident prove it, you were hoping to score points by taking care of her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018