I've said it before and I'll say it again, how I find it strange the LBH had rather his W be suffering with MLC......or just about anything other than waywardness. Since most MLCW have an A, why is it so difficult for the LBH to accept his W is wayward? I'm not trying to be a smart-aleck, I just don't get it, other than being an issue with pride. It's easier, I suppose, to blame or pin their W's actions on a "condition" (MLC), whereas, the LBH sees waywardness more personal. Having a wayward wife is like a slap in the H's face. Is that it?
My answer to Sandi's question:
I was hopeful for a second that my wife was having a MLC and was just experiencing a confusing time in her life. Maybe she just needed to go on a beach trip to get some space and figure things out. Then she could come home and we can work on things and fix our marriage with proper counseling.
.......Nah, that beach trip was with her affair partner. AND THEY HAD A LOT OF SEX.
It hurt me to the core to think that my wife just decided to become a cheating ____. It annihilated my pride feeling like I was not good enough for her. It crushed my soul when I found out what kind of douchey guy she chose as her OM. It destroyed my self-esteem knowing that the world was watching and wondering how I failed as a man.
But hey, a midlife crisis? That sounds like a condition that someone can snap out of!
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018
