Thank you all so much for chiming in... I might have left out a few details so it's natural that I appeared as creepy (i read back my post and I face-palmed myself too... haha)

I'll try to answer all the questions to my best!

Ginger1: That was one of the thoughts that crossed my mind; if I could recall a few major thoughts which happened in just a few seconds
1. Leave her be
2. Take advantage because of the lack of intimacy
3. Berate her for getting so drunk
4. Change out her clothes and put her to bed (eventually I took this option)

Adam04: I do have another toilet but the tenant was using it. Initially I wanted to use the bathroom but she was hogging it for hours; thus I wanted to make sure she didn't die in her own pool of puke. As for changing out her clothes; we have this habit of not lying down the bed without clean clothes + her dress stinks of cigarette smoke and greasy food (runs in the family; call us germophobes...) I asked her a few times if she would like a change of clothes, she responded with nods and a weak "Yes"

CWarrior: She didn't resist at all. Her statement of "Leave me alone" came towards the end of the changing out. She even sat up to allow me to access her dress and bra. I proceed to do it and was careful not to touch any lady parts.

sandi2: that thought of sex was a fleeting moment; no more than 2 seconds. I didn't venture into the legal consequences because I killed that thought with other thoughts and just tucked her into bed. Just wanted to be honest with myself and journal all the crazy thoughts I had at that moment

Steve85: Yes, exactly. When i returned to my side of the bed I started rethinking. "Wait a minute... I was fired and I'm helping her in her mess? What in the flying F was i thinking?!?!." But water under bridge; the next thing I could control was to avoid expectations. So far it's doing good. When she texted me the next day to thank me and said she hope she didn't mess up the toilet too badly, I took hours to respond with "No worries"

GH31: That's a good recommendation. I will seriously consider that if there's a next time. No point for me to make her all comfy and such.


M(36), W(36), D(6), D(4)
M-7, T-8
Bomb Drop - Nov 28, 2019
W requested separation - Sep 30, 2020