I'm sorry you feel picked on, that's not what our goal is.
For me, I'm confused as to what you are looking for here. This board is about growth and self development so that once we heal, we will be much better suited for a successful relationship with or without our ex.
When I read your posts, it comes across as you not wanting to self improve, but rather asking for dating advice.
I don't think anyone here can help with dating advice because broken attracts broken and you've admitted several times that you are broken. Are you asking for advice on how to make a broken relationship work with another broken person?
I'm confused...
I'm working very hard at self improvement. I get it my progress is not maybe as fast as it should be and its been a painful journey and some days I just go home and shut the door and go to bed to raw to do any work but also not wanting to make any mistakes and creating a set back.
Other days I'm full on doing the work.
I'm not asking for dating advice.
I got in over my head pretty quickly when I was not quite ready ... I was ready to date but not be exclusive because I realize I'm still in the process of being D but then found someone I liked a whole darn lot and that hasn't happened in a really long time.
It is what it is.
I'm just trying to honest and real with where I am. I know I struggle more than most.
