IRONICALLY... I like going out and having conversation over a meal (THE VERY THING pilot said I sucked at). I enjoy learning about new things and people. I actually have a good time and most of the men would also say the enjoyed meeting me and having a nice evening out. We are all starved for connection with COVID.
Ironically, you can do that with another lady! I too enjoy going out and having conversation over a meal. And I do it quite often. Sometimes with my wife. Sometimes with friends as a couple. Sometimes with one of my buddies. Sometimes with a couple of buddies. I get it, that is a social outlet that even introverts can sometimes enjoy! (I am an ambivert by the way.)
I know, you will give me reasons and excuses why that isn't the same. However, if just the need to go out and have conversation over a meal and learning new things and people was justification, then there would be nothing wrong with dating while you are married. I think you can see the difference.
I have nearly NO woman friends in my immediate area. I have more male friends. For some reason its easier to find men to go out with than woman... I'm not trying to make an excuse. Its just how it is.
I've experimented and the best way to meet new people and get out was a dating app of all things... I do not live in a big city and things to do are extremely limited.
I'm getting out there GAL and doing what I need to do but I get it my methods are a little unorthodox but I'm trying.
