Originally Posted by KitCat

IRONICALLY... I like going out and having conversation over a meal (THE VERY THING pilot said I sucked at). I enjoy learning about new things and people. I actually have a good time and most of the men would also say the enjoyed meeting me and having a nice evening out. We are all starved for connection with COVID.


Ironically, you can do that with another lady! I too enjoy going out and having conversation over a meal. And I do it quite often. Sometimes with my wife. Sometimes with friends as a couple. Sometimes with one of my buddies. Sometimes with a couple of buddies. I get it, that is a social outlet that even introverts can sometimes enjoy! (I am an ambivert by the way.)

I know, you will give me reasons and excuses why that isn't the same. However, if just the need to go out and have conversation over a meal and learning new things and people was justification, then there would be nothing wrong with dating while you are married. I think you can see the difference.


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