Kit,

I'm sorry you feel picked on, that's not what our goal is.

For me, I'm confused as to what you are looking for here. This board is about growth and self development so that once we heal, we will be much better suited for a successful relationship with or without our ex.

When I read your posts, it comes across as you not wanting to self improve, but rather asking for dating advice.

I don't think anyone here can help with dating advice because broken attracts broken and you've admitted several times that you are broken. Are you asking for advice on how to make a broken relationship work with another broken person?

I'm confused...