I am sorry you feel I was making fun of you. I wasn't. I did find it funny that you responded to Mr B. insisting you shouldn't be dating with the comment about dating more. -shrug-
What I was doing was trying to see how you make excuses for yourself. Acknowledge you have a fault, excuse it, then shrug your shoulders and say "oh well". I think you would benefit greatly from IC, but that is just me beating my head against the wall so I'll leave it there.
I recognize EVERYONE's opinion about me not dating... and I'm working through that. What am I dating for? What am I seeking? What does this do for me?
I was just explaining my actual experience in dating... and why is that I'm stuck on one particular person...
IRONICALLY... I like going out and having conversation over a meal (THE VERY THING pilot said I sucked at). I enjoy learning about new things and people. I actually have a good time and most of the men would also say the enjoyed meeting me and having a nice evening out. We are all starved for connection with COVID.
I am probably among the most honest on here in listing my journey and what really happens in ones mind. Its a unique time in my life... becoming an empty nester, H walks out and COVID. Those are major life changes and I got all 3 at the same time. I'm trying to not become the lady who sits at home and talks to herself non-stop.
Again. I'm active in a support group. I've been researching a life coach.
