Quick journaling because something happened last night which I think isn't good for me at all. I'm pretty sure like I've broken the DB rules.
Journaling is great for processing things, and journaling here also for support and advice.
Originally Posted by Akuei
Gave her something warm to drink, carried her to her bed which kinda messed up my still-recovering-from-ops-right-knee, changed out her clothes which she didn’t resist and tucked her into bed.
While you have no obligation to her, as a one-off helping someone who's drunk falls under "basic human kindness". I hope she appreciates it! I'm sorry you accidentally hurt your knee. Given your priorities, I assume that was an unforeseen consequence and not prioritizing her over your own health.
Originally Posted by Akuei
I’ve not been so up close with my W for a year plus and I was contemplating to be intimate when she was naked. But I managed to compose myself and did the right thing by not taking advantage of the situation.
I'm glad you realized that was wrong and didn't act on it. Changing her clothes gave me pause when she told you to stop. Would you have stopped or continued with an acquaintance or stranger?
Originally Posted by Akuei
She thanked me the next day and went radio silence again. I’m trying so hard not to expect any form of gratitude in return and boy was it hard but I managed to pull thru!
Good, she appreciated the good deed and expressed that naturally--"Thank you." Did you expect more?
Originally Posted by Akuei
W's inaction is in a way giving me time to focus and work on myself. My current focus in order of priority: Kids, work, GAL, health.
