Not caught up on story but wanted to chime in that that last post is a bit creepy. I understand when I had in house separation with my W there were days I thought about missing the physical and that was the longest period in my life since I had been a young teenage boy going without sex ever... don’t put yourself in those creeper situations especially with any drunk woman.
You could have moved her fully clothed and left her fully clothed if it was that bad like you had diarrhea and only one toilet.
Please continue the work, it’s very weak to expect anything from her like you were being a good helping boy. She was drunk... leave her to her mess.
Btw, her inaction , action, or anything she does should not interfere or have any affect on your progress and what you decide to do for yourself.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current