Hey Steve, i agree with you that we all have it to some extent.

I messaged my WW about 3 weeks ago saying that i am willing to put in the work to make this work and she needs to make a choice whether she wants to or im going to move on with my life and file. she said she wants a divorce and she will file and she doesnt want anything. Found out a few days later that she is seeing a friend of mine but thats beside the point. So basically im waiting for divorce papers to be delivered to me any day now.

The thing is i still love her, but is she the type of person i want to spend the rest of my life with and give my everything for? I dont think so anymore. I made mistakes but i was good to her, i deserve better than this. I will sign the papers and send back to her without a word. Maybe one day she wil realize what she has done, but that isnt my burden to bear.


Me 32, W 24
T 6, M 3
No kids
BD: Aug 2020
OM: Jan 2021
Wife to file soon