OMG May, I am binge-reading (laughing, crying, cringing, power-fisting, crying, laughing, cheering, etc) ALL through Wayfarer's sitch. Thank you for suggesting that one. I see myself in her so much and in her situation...and I'm still reading my way through it...
LOL she is the best. Don't judge me when you get to the parts of me hiding out on her thread because I didn't want to post on my own.
Another couple of people who had/have somewhat similar situations-- Pommy99, also had a H with a long-distance EA. He left and then returned. She dropped off the board this summer while working through reconciliation (or not, it wasn't super clear what she wanted to do when she stopped posting) but I'm sure you will be able to relate. Sage4 (over on MLC)'s H had a long-distance EA too. They're separated now and talking D. Sage is AMAZING too. There are so many fabulous women on this board, honestly! You are in good company
xx M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
