Mark, look at the quotes below from your last two posts.

You just posted:

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"The Enmeshing Nice Guy makes his partner his emotional centre. His world revolves around her. She is more important than his work, his friends, his hobbies.



Then followed with:

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Well the WW is now getting a flat to herself? She has decided to leave her mothers house ? Where she gets waited on hand and foot to come into the world of reality!


Do you see the connection?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!