Oh sorry I forgot to mention in my update. W went on and on again on how I want to punish her we cannot talk about the kids. She told me the kids are number 1 for her and she wants me to get to a point where I accept we will never be together but we can talk about the kids and how things are going at home so the other can adapt. I told her I understood where she was coming from but I could not offer that and she said she was giving me the space because I still think about R. She also mentioned I dont have to change for her because she simply knows she will never be happy with me.
About those conversations and sharing everything about the kids, I feel like for my own detachment it is better not to have them. Am I being reasonable about this or should I sacrifice for the sake of the kids and try and be friends with her on that sense? I just think of her and OM and I want to be away, very far, and take my kids with me. Must be the oain speaking, I need to think about what I can control now in my sitch.
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------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
