If I kick him out, it makes it harder on my step-son who lives with us half time and it’s harder to DB or have him see the changes in me if he’s not around.
The changes are for you, if you’re doing them for him they won’t stick nor will he believe them anyway.
Yes, I understand. I am doing them for me as I want to be the best me as well as take what I’ve learned into my future with or without him. I guess I do see that I am also wanting him to see the changes, which shouldn’t matter huh?
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
