These are all the things I'm working on figuring out every day. I also look in the mirror each day ask myself "Who am I?" Seems silly but it centers me a bit and gets me to focus on that very basic question.
How would it work if you looked in the mirror and told yourself who you were going to become? Give yourself an assignment or small goal for that day that would help you make a step closer to growing into the man you want to be.
I like that idea. For the assignment I've already got ideas. One thing I am trying to incorporate is doing at least 1 thing I am uncomfortable with every day. Something that I would normally avoid. As someone who always tends to avoid conflict or uncomfortable situations it is kind of a slow inoculation to those feelings.