She is on Facebook all the time and when she had the affair I figured a lot of it out because of the phone logs. Then those went cold and I couldn’t figure out how she was communicating but i just had this feeling she was using Facebook somehow and I couldn’t figure it out. I can see the people she friends and there was only one guy that was suspicious, she referred to him as her “pilot friend”. I expressed concern about him once and that blew up.
Anyhow whether or not she was using it, after I text her last night about it and she said she would “look into it” it immediately went away. So I text her again to let her know that and she said “I deleted it”, so basically she knew about it, whatever it was and lied about it the first time.
I completely agree with LH.
What [censored] about last night is I had done really good at the meeting and I felt good after considering, but then catching her lying about FB and the fact i always had a suspicion she was using FB to cheat on me, sting last night.
I’ll get over it; and who knows what it could have been for - it’s not relevant - I just need to move on and put it behind me.
