Hi Steve,

Originally Posted by Steve_
Yep not going to take custody away from mom without me documenting months of neglect or abuse. But i will begin doing so.
Originally Posted by Steve_
she actually just started a new "job" 4 hours away in LA. Yeah, that job is under the table for shady people and she lowers herself and my family name into that cesspool for money.

You've mentioned your wife's involved in neglect or abuse, and she's working an illegal job. I'm confused--why does she have 4 days to your 3, and why aren't you working to revoke her custody? If these were exaggerations--e.g., you just don't like her parenting or her job--please clarify so we understand what's going on. The kids' safety trumps most else. These inconsistencies may be what Joe is noticing.

Originally Posted by Steve_
Last time I talked to WW was a few days ago, she pretty much just said she needs some time to figure herself
Originally Posted by Steve_
She has called me a couple times and asked how I am and so on, I just say okay

I see you're pulling back, but not ready to set and enforce firm boundaries.

Originally Posted by Steve_
At this point I have become indifferent.

I wonder what puzzle piece we're missing that makes you consider resuming after being cheated on seven times. I've read diligently, I don't understand, but I do wish you and yours well Steve_.