Thanks CWarrior, will take a look into that technique and apply it in my next relationship. It probably wont be with WW but who knows, miracles can happen.

I do believe in some walls until you feel comfortable to let your guard down, and meeting someone that sticks around and helps break down the walls through trust,etc. shows me they deserve a chance to break through if that makes sense. You need to let your guard down to experience life, for example i am scared of sharks but that wont stop me from swimming in the ocean or trying to surf.

I havent heard from W in a week today, last thing she asked was for me to post her the marriage certificate so she can file. Also, 6 months today since i last saw her. Its been a tough day.


Me 32, W 24
T 6, M 3
No kids
BD: Aug 2020
OM: Jan 2021
Wife to file soon