It is wonderful to hear from you. And I’m glad you understand me as well.
I also recall the ton of bricks upon my head when what it means to stand hit me. Seeing that, understanding that, and then choosing that, gives an inner strength and peace. It comes from one’s control of self, the only control we have.
I love seeing your choices, and respect each and every one. It’s in those very choices that our blessings within this incredible opportunity unfold. Look at a few of your blessings: Fatherhood is great; work is great; active and happy. Have faith, things do turn out like they are supposed to, and I never imagined I’d being living this life either.
Some DnJ-type encouragement for my good friend.
Originally Posted by Gordie
I don't know if I'm doing things right, but I'm trying my hardest to stay true to my values and continue to pray that things turn out how they are supposed to, even if they are different than what I want or how I imagined.
Stop “trying your hardest”. Realize after all these years you have been doing it - not trying to do it, actually doing it!
Move beyond worrying or knowing if you are doing things right. Live your values and beliefs. Believe it, you are doing things right!
Realize things already are as they are supposed to be - right now. And I’ve no doubt things will evolve and progress as all things do, although not on your time, on God’s time. No need to fret and pray for things to turn out like they are supposed to, for they already are. God has not forsaken you. And whatever He holds for your future will be revealed in time. Are you praying for things to turn out like you want or like God wants?
I believe this wording suits you better.
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I am living my values and staying true to my beliefs. My life is much different than I ever imagined and I thank God for being so blessed.
You’re a bright light my friend. Never believe differently.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
