Trying to heal from WW

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Fair enough, didnt resolve anything. When she stopped doing that was what actually scared me, because then i new she had given up trying. Like i said i should have seen BD coming.

True, she only stopped doing that when i stopped pursuing or trying to justify myself. I apologised that i made her feel that way and for things i know i did. Alot of it is stuff from years ago as well, it seems like she never forgave me or let anything go or she was just bringing it all up to justify her own actions and alleviate her guilt. I had apologised for these things many times in the past, i tried to change myself but did make the same mistakes again sometimes.

Thanks Sandi, the counselor is helping me deal with the loss of my marriage as well as internal issues i have had for most of my life and i believe he will be able to help me move forward.