It do you think a quality woman will be a woman who is willing to be used to fill your void?
Or are you fine with a woman just looking to fill her void too?
Being a woman who I had been on and off dating sites who is looking for a real partner , not someone to fill a void, I literally fear men who aren’t being being honest and they just want to fill a void too.
It could potentially be harmful to the women you date of you aren’t honest. And if you fall for one and you haven’t changed that daddy codependent dynamic you had with your exW, well, there is a lot of harm in that.
An IC who helps you change dynamic for a future healthy you and an R would probably very beneficial.
Hey, no one knows being alone on a cold winters day better than me. And I can actually find someone to fill that void very easily. But it is not healthy and not fair to someone else, nor is it desirable to be
