Broken people / people with personality disorders will often say one thing / one rule , but then it doesnt apply to them.
To put into context, my WW hated cheating. She made it very clear from the first date, that cheating was a no no.. Her father had left her mother and her for another woman 27 years prior to meeting me.
Three months into our relationship, i accidently found evidence of an historic affair with an engaged / (maybe married) man from work. It was way before we met, so i thought nothing of it - She played it down and i ignored this HUGE red flag..
Her words didnt match her actions. Stupid me for ignoring this !
It took me until DB to see this, when she cheated on me !
I suspect over the coming weeks / months you will see things a lot clearer and realise your WW wasnt all that !
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.