The trouble is that us LBH's view our WW via rose coloured spectacles and put them on a pedastool, we are remembering the good moments of our M, where as our WW is only wants to remember the negative bits and non of the good bits?
What us LBH's need to do is remember, is the lies and deceit we had to endure over the past year or two? In my case of how she put me into Depression and stress.
When I list out her good points and then her bad points of which there are more,!
I then ask myself why would you still want to be M with her?
