Hi CWarrior, thanks for your response.

I would just bring up something that bothered me and she would start a fight or turn it around on me, i get what you are saying though.

True, i have been isolating myself a bit from people these last few months which isn't good. Slowly starting to come out of my shell and do things again.

Thanks, trying to find consistency in keeping these changes going is the challenge but i will get there.

Starting to realise that but when you constantly get blamed and are a person that tends to have alot of regret in general it is difficult at first not to believe what she says.

Thank you for the kind words, im also trying to become aware of negative thoughts and stop myself. I also an overthinker which doesnt help. Will keep on working on it


Me 32, W 24
T 6, M 3
No kids
BD: Aug 2020
OM: Jan 2021
Wife to file soon