No, I’m looking for a place now and we will be selling the house in the summer as both kids will be in college. The advice here is to not leave and when I caught her in the bubble bath on face time I was reluctant to leave because I thought that was really reckless behavior as we had kids in the house. I had images of Oms parading through the front door past my kids on the way to the bedroom.
I know she doesn’t want to save the marriage. I actually have more coaching paid for but I don’t really think there is much point. So I think we are pretty much done. I was pretty much NC for three weeks in January because we both took trip. I was actually annoyed when we had to email about D18 school.
Is she wayward or ww. Idk. I know she gets all dressed up once or twice a week and runs meaningless “errands” but she’s not at night or overnight. She’s having some sort of affair, but no tattoos piercings. She had her teeth whitened but kind of stopped working out.