Sorry Gerda, bit of a clarification. Not a neutral in the sense of a mediator who should have no preference for either side. A lawyer should be a zealous advocate, within the bounds of the law and the requirements of professionalism, for their client but should remain personally detached so they can effectively evaluate the case and watch out for their client's best interest. A client does not need a buddy in attacking the other side, they need cool-headed detachment and an ability to weigh everything, good and bad, to properly advise a client about whether they should settle or litigate. When you begin to personalize a dispute, you've lost the ability to help your client.