To completely give up, walk away, and I would start dating.
Would you date others, when you're still attached enough your STBXW can rile you up?
Yes. Lots of people can rile me, that doesn’t mean I change my life because of it. Work colleagues, clients, kids, my brother. I’m not sure how someone pissing me off is the measuring stick. I am confident that for the rest of my life my STBXW will be pissing me off.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
You really think you are in a good mental Space to date?
Hm. I’m not looking for the next Mrs. Scottb. I’m just talking about going out for a drink here or there and getting back into the game.
Originally Posted by Steve85
Scott, take this time to work on yourself. Broken attracts broken. If you do not put in the work now, you will be setting yourself up for a future BD in a new R.
I am just saying that I’m about 95% done with my STBXW. Getting emails from her annoys me. Seeing her new picture for her new job on linkedin, I found her to be unattractive, old looking, and I think she’s losing hair. I feel sorry for her. She’s a mess; two faced, fake, I don’t want to deal with her anymore. She needs real help. Anyhow, I’ll be moving on fast when I move. I can feel it. We all walk our own path. We’ll see what mine looks like.
