Trying to heal from WW

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Its good to hear another perspective from someone that has gone through a similar sitch, thanks for sharing and giving some advise. I know i wasn't perfect and neither was she, she seemed to think she was almost perfect though and she said exactly that a few times. You are right though that no matter how bad things were at times i wasn't going to give up on her and i would never have done this to her.

I will try do that but i can guarantee that she wouldnt meet any of my values for the past 6 months and maybe even longer than that.

Im glad you have come to that realization, im sure it will help you start healing. I haven't come to that place yet but i am getting there slowly and i agree that i shouldnt want to be with someone who doesn't love me or value who i am.

Yes i agree, i dont want to choose the 1st option. It is still a choice that we all have to make though and hopefully we all can make the right choice. Thanks for your messages, i am strong enough to get through this and come out a better man.