Hello, I just had a convo with STBXW. Man, it made me sad because I feel the the destruction of the marriage was soemthing that could have bee avoided. I know the resentment built up, but my anger and grumpiness were not the answer. I always felt that if you provide and dont cheat that your marriage is good. She actually said we were both poor commincatprs and she held evrythinh inside.
One poster said that your marriage i like the toy on the shelf you dont play with, but its your favorite toy whe someone takes it way.
She said one year ago she was not thinking about divorce, I dont know when OM came around.
I dont why I am posting this but I feel like if I was less of a jerk it could have gone the other way. It was just too little too late.
