Don, you can express your disagreement without throwing a temper tantrum. I told Scott my opinion, he acknowledged it was good advice, he considered it and he rejected it for personal reasons which is absolutely his right and I respect that. You however do not have the right to express your opinion like it is the only one that matters. Step back, take a deep breath, relax, chill. You have an opposing view then by all means express it, but do not come in here attacking me or anyone else, you do not have the right.
Honestly, that was intended as much as a playfully-sarcastic response as anything. After sending it I figured it may not land that way as often happens with text only. Obviously it’s not the worst advice ever in a literal sense. I still stand by my comments but the contrived humor-attempted exaggeration got lost, and for that I apologize.
It does still hit me that in the past, smoking pot with your kids or taking an 11 year old to an R rated movie, or allowing or facilitating them to do something that could truly bring them harm like taking them to a violent protest/riot would be seen as a risky pre D move that could paint them in a bad light with the court. But in 2020, and evidently continuing into 2021, having the brazen audacity to fly to Florida to visit family is placed on the same level. How far we have come in so short of time. And not in a good way.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D