Steve85, I'm in total agreement there. I do feel there is a lot of value in the process...but you are right that they have to be a good fit, and also pro-marriage.
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.