On that same topic of stopping the nesting and sleeping in my own bed - how does that work when you're trying to make it so the WW doesn't get to have her cake and eat it to. Me sleeping in the same bed as her is something she would enjoy. When we have stayed the night together we are much closer than we used to be before all the BS. I see it as her being able to enjoy the comfort of us being together rather giving her a chance to miss that. Or am I off base?