Ace, as I describe it, its like skating on ice and everything I did wrong in my STBXW's eyes thinned the ice, yet nothing I did could ever thicken it again. The ice was always doomed to crack...

I feel for you Ace, this situation that you find yourself in [censored]. I can feel your pain, I could have written this last post myself. After she left, my friends starting pointing all these things out to me. Its taken me a while, but I am starting to realise that I deserve better than this, you will too. We deserve to be happy and to be with people who don't make us feel this way. We may not have been perfect, but we didn't deserve this.

Keep putting in the work, listening to the advice, things will start to turn for you mate.


Me: 41 W:42
T: 14 M: 11
S: 6

"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"