Well, Im not doing medation until we agree on some terms. Mediation is only appropriate where both sides are honest.She has some agenda driving this, she wants it done now. Well, it;s going to cost her. She can half of 1/2 of everything and most of the house but I am fighting for my pension. I retired in December 2019, 6 months before BD. Finished my career with no thought of working again Now all of the sudden she wants 1/2 my pension and all of her business?