Right down to the bills and admin stuff - Then when they get it wrong or forget to do something, they blame you for being controlling or now showing them how to do it properly..
Best thing i ever did was get away from her. People how cannot be wrong or take responsibility are not good partners. Move on and enjoy life !
Must be something about this personality that is conducive to Waywardness. This is my STBXW to a tee.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
Well, Im not doing medation until we agree on some terms. Mediation is only appropriate where both sides are honest.She has some agenda driving this, she wants it done now. Well, it;s going to cost her. She can half of 1/2 of everything and most of the house but I am fighting for my pension. I retired in December 2019, 6 months before BD. Finished my career with no thought of working again Now all of the sudden she wants 1/2 my pension and all of her business?
Well, Im not doing medation until we agree on some terms. Mediation is only appropriate where both sides are honest.She has some agenda driving this, she wants it done now. Well, it;s going to cost her. She can half of 1/2 of everything and most of the house but I am fighting for my pension. I retired in December 2019, 6 months before BD. Finished my career with no thought of working again Now all of the sudden she wants 1/2 my pension and all of her business?
Nick try to negotiate the terms ahead of time. Try to use her guilt against her. Do everything to try to protect your pension but know legally she is entitled to half of it.
