That helps, I told him I wouldn't help, but wasn't as clear on the 'resist part'. Thanks for that!
As for the IC, I think it was his advice and it made me very uncomfortable. So, I'm on the hunt for a new one as well as I have been reading several books as well.
Moving forward one day at a time...
One think I truly believe when it comes to IC is that you should find one that aligns with your beliefs. For me that meant a faith-based Christian IC. Some might prefer a different type of IC. But if the IC is antithetical to your principles then you should probably move on, and it sounds like this one was. Don't give up on IC, just give up on THAT IC.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
